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Originally Posted by Replaced_Texan
I used to sleep with a guy casually. He and I were friends, and sometimes we'd hook up. Sooner or later he started a relationship, and we just reverted back to friendship. At some point she'd asked him if he'd slept with anyone she knew. He lied about having had sex with me, and later she found out about it. His defense was something along the lines of "didn't matter, didn't mean anything. It was like masturbating with someone else in the room."
I felt like total and complete shit when I heard about that description. It was totally consensual, usually fun sex. To have it, to have ME belittled and made to be nothing, was really, really painful. He's the only person I actively avoid. I blocked him from pretty much every aspect of my life, and years later, I have absolutely no interest in any contact at all with him. He had been a really good friend.
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I don't know the guy or anything at all about your arrangement other than what you just said. But I really doubt that's how he actually thought about it. It sounds to me like he was saying what he thought would get him out of trouble for lying. Not saying that isn't a shitty thing to do. But I think when he was saying it that he probably truly thought you'd understand being thrown under the bus to save his relationship (especially if you guys were truly close).
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Originally Posted by Replaced_Texan
I can sort of imagine what she is going through now, but Jesus that must be so painful.
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What she's going through--being a fucking meme precursor in a fucking yearbook in which a bunch of dudes are bragging about fucking her--is outrageously disgusting. He should be bounced for just this.
TM
