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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
[long set up to the big lie] Then, on Friday, a few hours in advance, you call her and say that you changed your mind and are going to meet him. Go, have your fun with your ex and when you come home, she'll ask how it was first. You'll say it was okay, even though you didn't go where he originally wanted to go and he was into some girl the whole time.
This is important because she or one of her friends may have seen you at another place and may also have seen you with her. But now you're good. Because if she goes all in at this point, there's no problem. "Why was I talking to some girl? I just told you he was into some girl. Your friend probably saw me with her when he went to the bathroom or something. What the fuck?"
Easy street. Guilt and shame shifted to her shoulders. And you're already onto asking what's in the fridge.
TM
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So what happens if the friend watched you for 30, 45, 60 minutes and saw only you and the girl together talking and took note of your body language? Call your pal Fugee for assistance with the appropriate "forgive me" jewelry purchase??? At some point lying about it is worse than what you actually did and makes the other person think you must have done something really bad to lie about it.
I think going off to meet an ex without telling the SO is fraught with peril. But then again I am a terrible liar.
