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Originally posted by notcasesensitive
I have a (weird?) thing about lying to or being lied to by my SO. If I ever found out he did something like this, I would rage. Seriously. If something is not innocent enough for you to tell your SO where you are going, why do it? If you think that your SO would not condone your behavior either because s/he would be irrational or because s/he had reason not to condone it, isn't it important to communicate about that stuff?
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I'm with you on this NCS. Meeting up with an ex may or may not upset me (depends on whether/what I'd heard about the ex from the SO) but lying about it would send me over the edge.
I had a lengthy on and off relationship with a guy who lied about where he was and what he was doing, even when he wouldn't have needed to lie. Just remembering sent my blood pressure up about 20 points.
