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Originally posted by Hank Chinaski
Part of the reason people are having different opinions on this might be the nature of the meeting. You might be talking about two different meetings.
You seem to assume they're talking about a quiet drink for an hour to talk over old times. I can't imagine many SOs not being able to handle this.
But the original hypo was a night out drinking for several hours. Not catch-up; fun. For this not to be likely to turn sexual would require a friendship I certainly don't have with any ex, but maybe someone does. If I did want to go out drinking all night with an ex that would be a hard thing to sell the wife.
But, I agree with you that not being honest would seem very wrong, and damaging to the relationship even if she didn't find out.
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Both of my SOs ended up spending a material amount of time at their exes houses for two different reasons both exes were an airplane's flight away from me. I dont think it matters.
