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Originally posted by Hank Chinaski
But, I agree with you that not being honest would seem very wrong, and damaging to the relationship even if she didn't find out.
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And, while if one of the two did find out and was completely rational and accepting about it and decided that the violation of trust could be forgiven and worked through, it's too easy to basically fall out of love at that point, no matter the conscious intent to get past things. Once you know that you have reason to wonder at the truth of what you're being told by someone, that will always be in your mind on some level. Just not worth it.
