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Originally posted by Hank Chinaski
But the original hypo was a night out drinking for several hours. Not catch-up; fun. For this not to be likely to turn sexual would require a friendship I certainly don't have with any ex, but maybe someone does. If I did want to go out drinking all night with an ex that would be a hard thing to sell the wife.
But, I agree with you that not being honest would seem very wrong, and damaging to the relationship even if she didn't find out.
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If you tell me you're going out for a drink with an ex, I'll assume you're going out for a drink with your ex. If you don't tell me, I'll assume there's a reason you don't want to tell me, and I'll be rightly pissed when inevitably I find out that you lied.
Have some guts and just spit it out like a man (or woman, whatever). If it's an innocent drink, who gives?
