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Originally posted by Did you just call me Coltrane?
Poll: who has, to avoid the pain of dumping an SO, tried to get the SO to dump them instead and how?
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I don't understand why SD says it's bad luck to behave this way (in my opinion, it's just the opposite and I actually think this is shameful behavior), but I've done it. I was dating (living with for a while, until we had to live apart for school) this really really nice guy. Very hot, much younger than I was, positively worshipped me.
Of course that meant I cheated on him like crazy and actually left clues all over the place that I was cheating on him so that he would find out and dump me. He never did. We ended up sort of breaking up mutually because we were just not going to live in the same city. I feel really shitty still about what I did because I'm sure he knew, he was just kind of wilfully blind to it. But who knows, he could have been cheating on me too and I just didn't see it.
It was like deep down I knew I didn't want to be with him, but couldn't tell him that to his face because my ego wouldn't allow it (he was great for my ego).
