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Originally posted by Bad_Rich_Chic
Why? Shouldn't the burden be on the person insulting me by treating me as unworthy of trust?
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That spin made me dizzy! I think that the "I'm keeping this from you because it would only bother you needlessly" view is extremely insulting.
And I'm not taking a hard line moralistic view on this subject. I don't think it's right or wrong to tell or to keep; it depends on the relationships. As Wonk said, some stuff is gray. But I will say that the only time that I would not tell my SO about having a drink with an ex would be if I were meeting the one ex whom I would still like to fuck.
