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Originally posted by robustpuppy
But I will say that the only time that I would not tell my SO about having a drink with an ex would be if I were meeting the one ex whom I would still like to fuck.
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I've been thinking about this and what I realize is that the only SO's I have that I would think to meet up with at all are the ones I would still, at least in the hypothetical sense, like to fuck. Which are pretty much all the serious ones from my past.
What I mean is that when I think about my past loves, I still think I'd like to fuck them, because at one time I wanted to fuck them because I found something attractive about them...and the only reason I'd be interested in seeing them would be that thing that attracted me to them in the first place.
Of course, wanting to fuck them and actually fucking them are two very different things. And no, I wouldn't fuck any of them, because none of that would be worth the damage to my marriage.
But, I do think, if you do cheat, it's your penance to keep your fucking mouth shut about it. You must carry around the heavy burden of your infidelity. To lay that burden at the feet of the loved one you've wronged would be to wrong them twice, and that's uncool.
