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Originally posted by Fashionable But Anonymous
I'm sorry to hear that. Did you and your wife try counseling? What about medication?
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We tried counseling; she tried medication. She stayed on Wellbutrin long enough to quit smoking, but not permenantly. She had a real medication adversion.
She also had irrational trust issues (as I alluded to earlier this week), which the counselling did nothing to resolve. Ultimately, I realized the relationship was never going to return to a state in which I could be comfortable, and it was time to end it.
You aren't going to be alone for the rest of your life. Neither is s/he. Both my ex and I started dating again pretty soon after the separation was definite, and we both remarried. I believe she is happy. I certainly am.
