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Bad kissers
I've had a couple, and one was fixable and one wasn't.
The fixable one didn't use any tongue, but did open his mouth, so it was a little like kissing a bottomless pit. He said well, he didn't want to just stick his tongue down my throat. I explained that the point of kissing was to get as much skin contact as possible in these sensitive areas. I didn't want him to stick his tongue down my throat, but I wanted more contact. A little theory and some teaching by example, and he made a miraculous improvement almost instantly.
The non-fixable one came before the fixable one, so I didn't know what would work to change it. He kissed a lot like your guy, only without the lip-licking. Yes, all tongue all the time. I never really tried to fix it, and that was one of the reasons I didn't marry him.
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PS Am I really smug? Shoot, I try not to be. I didn't get married until I was 29, and I never thought of marriage as inevitable.
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