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Originally posted by NotFromHere
Present. I've been trying to decide what this guy's motive is, here's the story, from the Mr. Manners of the sex world... husband of 13 years has begun to express sexual fantasies. While he has always been interested in my sexual history (I'm 39 and he's 40), lately he's been wanting me to tell him details about sex with previous partners, including their penis size, and whether I would be interested in sleeping with them again.

He also says he wants me to have affairs and would like to watch or at least have me describe the experience to him during our lovemaking. He says he doesn't have any specific men in mind; he seems to just enjoy thinking about me sleeping with other guys. I am concerned for several reasons. First, he often needs me to talk about sex with other men in order for him to climax. Second, I worry that he really is serious about wanting me to see other men, and if so, what that means for my marriage. Third, I wonder if he's trying to assuage a guilty conscious (I've often suspected him of cheating on me). And lastly, if for some reason I took him up on his offer (something I admit I do think about) what would his reaction be when confronted with the reality?


My personal feeling is #3. Once she says yes, then the door is open for him to bring in another woman.

Oh baby, don't you see? This means we don't have to hide in dark places in bad neighborhoods any more? It's our dream come true.