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Originally posted by LessinSF
I know DS has already mentioned it, but, as I have explained ad nauseum, I agree and disagree.

"Slut" is a term of endearment, a compliment, and a short-hand term for the type of women men should reward with their presence, interest and praise, while non-sluts should be shunned. ostracized and reviled. As men, we can best change female behavior by encouraging the behavior we like (i.e., putting out sooner, with fewer Rules, for less time and money invested and without "love" or similar crap) and discouraging the behavior we don't (i.e. prudish, prim, chaste, celibate, modest, good girl, etc.)

98% of these behaviors are not biologic or genetic, but cultural and learned. As such, they can be changed. For example, next time you are in a conversation with a girl (at a party, bar, wherever) who says something like "I've been dating him for three months and we haven't had sex," respond with "You frigid, manipulative bitch" or "That's bullshit." If you are uncomfortable with that level of confrontation, just walk away with an aside like "I don't want to continue to talk to someone who holds your beliefs" or whatever you would feel comfortable saying to, say, Pat Buchanan if you found out you were talking to him at a party.

Less (I would have linked to my prior missives on the subject, but Infirmation has been down for about 36 hours now) inSF

Less,

A better reply might be "He's clearly gay" or "That's awful - how goddamn selfish of him!"

S(I find your points intriguing and wish to subscribe to your newsletter)D

PS: That was pretty goddamn funny. I know it was uninentional, but you just eerily channeled the early 80s voice of PJ O'Rourke, a la "Modern Manners".