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Originally posted by lookingformarket
1. Do you and your spouse take separate vacations? If yes, for weekends or longer?
2. Do you have kid(s)? If yes, do(es) the kid(s) go on the separate vacations?
3. Does your spouse work outside of the home?
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1. When I first read this, my thought was "Absolutely not. That's for self-centered yuppies with open marriages." Then you mentioned retreats. And I remembered she sometimes goes to visit her out-of-state folks for weeks at a time. Neither of which seemed like separate vacations, but which obviously are. (If we have an open marriage, she hasn't told me yet.)
2. Yes, and (in the sense sometimes they go on the trips to her folks') yes.
3. Yes. But in her job, vacations are frequent and long, and in mine (obviously) not so much.