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Originally posted by evenodds
My thoughts:
Don't be such a wimp about it.
Either it's a problem for you or it isn't.
If it is a problem for you, tell her. If it's not, tell her to stop whining unless she's going to do something about it.
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I might take a more delicate approach. Start suggesting that you go to the gym together. Try going to yoga classes or spinning classes or something. It's a great way to bond and it can be pretty fun with a good partner. You know, someone to share the agony with.
Make it seem like YOU need her to be there for you because it's just too hard to get to the gym when you'd rather be spending time with her.
This may sound manipulative, but there's something to be said for being NICE and not directly telling someone you like spending time with that he or she is fat.
