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Originally posted by sunnybunny
No, the door is still open. We jsut ahd this discussion this morning and we both had places to be so we agreed we were going ot discuss it later.
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It seems like a rather silly thing to discuss for longer than two minutes, unless there are all sorts of other underlying trust issues.
Given how much you're bothered by this, however, this sounds like the type of thing that you're going to dwell on and then strike him with maybe two or three months down the line in some unrelated argument. So it needs to be resolved for both of you sooner rather than later.
Use the words "disappointed" and "betrayed my trust" and pout a little until he feigns looking bad and offers to take you out to dinner. Make sure he's squriming like the lying sneaky pig that he is. Use tears if he doesn't look like he's suffering, because, hey, he renewed a subscription. Suggest that you're going to withhold sex, because you're so distraught over the whole thing. Tell him how all your girlfriends think he's an awful terrible person and aren't you being nice for talking this thing through instead of leaving, like they suggested.
Then the issue is resolved and he can sneak porn on the side and you can be blissfully unaware of its existence. Oh, and the totally awesome Ceaser salad dressing that came out of that rag maybe 15 years ago. I still use it every week or so.
