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Originally posted by ABBAKiss
Why is everone so outraged? I wouldn't want a fat wife. I might phrase it differently but I think it's nice that he is willing to help her lose the weight.
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You misunderstand, Abba, my love.
It is not the sentiment -- it's the offensive and hurtful way in which the sentiment was conveyed. I think it's the "I'm tired of..." that nettles.
I don't know -- if my husband were fat, I don't think I would love him less; maybe I'd find him less attractive, but it's hurtful to hear that your spouse is "tired" of you because of the way you look. Sad, really.
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