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02-11-2011, 04:59 PM
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#1471
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Location: The Duchy of Penske
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Re: Emotional affairs
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Originally Posted by ABBAKiss
I'm not saying don't talk to anyone about relationship issues -- just that telling close friends/family who have a day-to-day relationship with you (and therefore with your SO) about the ins and outs of your relationship can be a bad idea. I have spoken to various people (on this board even!) about some very painful issues in my past relationships. I have found their advice to be very helpful to me. But they have no stake in the outcome other than that I am happy, and they do not have to make nice with an SO who hurt me had I not followed their advice and decided to stay.
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In the successful relationships I have been in, I mostly mainly talked to the other person in the relationship about our issues. The open communications concept seemed to work.
ymmv.
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02-11-2011, 05:00 PM
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#1472
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Re: Emotional affairs
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Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski
2. like say if RexRyan, or the missus, had told a friend about the movies and asked the friend if putting it on the internet was a good idea.
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Whatever happened with this? Any updated videos? the ones I got a few months back are no longer doing the trick for me...... 
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02-11-2011, 05:01 PM
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#1473
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Re: La
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Originally Posted by Gattigap
PM me when the date gets closer. It's true that I fled to the east coast for a trip when I heard that Sidd was coming to town, but I'm happy to buy you a beer, so long as you leave the Cleveland Steamer at home.
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Right on. Will do. Any restaurant recs?
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02-11-2011, 05:01 PM
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#1474
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Re: Emotional affairs
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Originally Posted by Adder
You will not be surprised to learn that I am not very good at that.
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New sig line for you? 
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02-11-2011, 05:05 PM
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#1475
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Genius Known As ABBAKiss
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Wonderland
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Re: Emotional affairs
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Originally Posted by Penske 2.0
In the successful relationships I have been in, I mostly mainly talked to the other person in the relationship about our issues. The open communications concept seemed to work.
ymmv.
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I think it depends on the issues. Obviously, you have to communicate with your SO. There are some issues, though, where, as ncs pointed out, a decision must be made. This is when I would confide in someone to be sure I have my head on straight. Not because I am irritated that he left the toilet seat up.
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02-11-2011, 05:30 PM
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#1476
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: NYC
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Re: Lamest k race win ever
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Originally Posted by Pretty Little Flower
You just keep telling yourself that, sicko.
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02-11-2011, 05:32 PM
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#1477
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Wild Rumpus Facilitator
Join Date: Mar 2003
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Re: Why We're Here: Twin Cities
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Originally Posted by Penske 2.0
I do. I'll be sad as there is less chance for me if she is in jail.  
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But so much more opportunity when she gets out and goes Crack Ho.
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02-11-2011, 05:34 PM
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#1478
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I am beyond a rank!
Join Date: Mar 2003
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Re: Lamest k race win ever
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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall
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That works for me.
But I do have a boob fetish, so.
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02-11-2011, 05:36 PM
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#1479
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Re: Lamest k race win ever
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Originally Posted by Sidd Finch
But I do have a boob fetish, so.
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02-11-2011, 05:37 PM
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#1480
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: on an elliptical
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Re: Lamest k race win ever
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Originally Posted by Sidd Finch
That works for me.
But I do have a boob fetish, so.
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this was painful but funny the tarzan fotos were ha.
http://www.thedailybeast.com/galleries/2611/1/
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02-11-2011, 05:48 PM
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#1481
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Re: Lamest k race win ever
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Originally Posted by Sidd Finch
That works for me.
But I do have a boob fetish, so.
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No no no, that's not gonna help. That's not gonna help and I'll tell you why: It doesn't unbang your Mom.
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02-11-2011, 06:07 PM
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#1482
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Wild Rumpus Facilitator
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Re: Lamest k race win ever
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Originally Posted by Flinty_McFlint
I usually don't like to reply to an Adder post for the obvious reasons, but in this case, I just have to.
I just got emailed by my first serious gf from high school. Essentially, it was like an apology email (she moved mid-year, and after a couple of months long distance, she broke up with me). We also hooked up a couple of times in college, but other than that, really no contact for 20 years. Email is about how she feels bad that she treated me poorly (she did?) and that if it makes me feel better, she's been treated poorly by her hubby for 20 years and they're divorcing.
I need a ruling here--obviously she wants to get with me right? Right? Sadly, she didn't send a picture, and you can only imagine that she can't have gotten better after 16 right? I mean she's like 39 or something. Ick.
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I think I speakk for Less when I suggest you at least consider asking if she has a hot daughter who might need consoling.
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02-11-2011, 06:36 PM
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#1483
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Wild Rumpus Facilitator
Join Date: Mar 2003
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Re: Lamest k race win ever
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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Maybe I should have rephrased my question, because you seem to be posting the obvious.
Is it really true that so many of you have been able to apply a bright-line, no cheating-rule to every relationship you've ever been in for your entire life, whether those relationships be relatively serious or not?
Maybe people have just been in serious relationship after serious relationship. Maybe everyone here is highly principled when it comes to cheating and always has been. I already got some answers that indicate that posters just dumped people instead of cheating.
No matter what the answer, I wanted to hear about people's experiences. I don't know what the focus is on the "impossible" part of my comment. Jesus. Obviously it's not impossible. I just thought cheating was a whole lot more common than it appears to be on this board. Hell, I don't think I have a single male friend who hasn't cheated on someone. And lots of the females I've known have done a whole lot of cheating too.
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I cheated. I did it more than once. It totally fucked up me and my marriage. I can't recommend it.
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02-11-2011, 06:42 PM
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#1484
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Wild Rumpus Facilitator
Join Date: Mar 2003
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Re: Emotional affairs
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Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski
but you don't think BJs=sex, right?
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Not yours, anyway.
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02-11-2011, 06:44 PM
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#1485
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Registered User
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Throwing a kettle over a pub
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Re: Lamest k race win ever
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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall
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No no no, that's not gonna help. That's not gonna help and I'll tell you why: It doesn't unbang your Mom.
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