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Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski
okay, and I agree with everyone that adder should have kept his mouth shut about B, but we as advice advocates are stuck with our mentee, and Adder doesn't have that in him even though it would have been the best thing for A.
And barely, you may have missed this because you haven't been here as much, but last week, before any date at all, A text called Adder to a bar for what could have been their first "date". Adder had a clear impression she would have had sex that night, except he decided not to because he "knew how to play this one."
your earlier advice was to distinguish a bar pick up encounter from an online dating encounter, but if adder was right about that night (ha!) she surely couldn't have had any expectations.
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If they met online, then it doesn't matter where their subsequent dates take place. She's not a bar hookup. And he obviously knew that she was interested in an exclusive relationship with him.
Adder, just out of curiousity, if, after you had sex with her, you found out that Woman A went on a date with another guy she met online and really liked him and was going to keep dating him and possibly start sleeping with him while she was also sleeping with you, would you have cared?
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