Lamest k race win ever

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally Posted by ABBAKiss

If you truly believe that people are not built for monogamy and have no intention of being monogamous, DO NOT ENTER A RELATIONSHIP. DO NOT TELL ANYONE YOU DATE THAT YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP. BE CLEAR THAT YOU ARE USING THEM FOR SEX AND FOR WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE IT BUT HAVE NO INTENTION OF BEING THERE FOR THEM WHEN YOU DON'T. You can have whatever belief you want about monogamy - just don't hold and act on one belief while professing another.

Stop shouting. I'm seriously - seriously - hungover.

[Adder]

Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield

Stop shouting. I'm seriously - seriously - hungover.

Good night, eh?

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally Posted by Adder

Good night, eh?

Chivas
Macallan
Glenlivet
Guinness
Johnny Walker Green

Somewhere in there I had a business meeting.

Somewhere in there I also gave up entirely on Macallan. It tastes too sweet. I just don't like it and I'm going to stop trying to adjust that position.

[Sidd Finch]

Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield

Chivas
Macallan
Glenlivet
Guinness
Johnny Walker Green

Somewhere in there I had a business meeting.

Somewhere in there I also gave up entirely on Macallan. It tastes too sweet. I just don't like it and I'm going to stop trying to adjust that position.

I'm with you on Macallan.

[ThurgreedMarshall]

TM

[notcasesensitive]

Originally Posted by Flinty_McFlint

Wait, you're hypothesizing that Atticus' wife leans emotionally on another dude, chatters that dude's ear off, wants to spend time with that dude instead of AG, but doesn't have sex with the dude? Are you proposing that's a bad thing? I'm confused.

I don't think an "emotional affair" is as damaging as a physical affair, but I'll mention that, in my experience*, the key components that are hurtful to the existing relationship are the fact the the person in the emotional affair is typically telling the other man/woman intimate things about the existing relationship and there is in fact physical attraction that just hasn't been acted upon. Those are the things that pose a risk to the existing relationship (and will piss the hell out of the other spouse). Without those, it's just a friendship.

*Both my experience and experiences of my friends.

[notcasesensitive]

Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield

What's your view on hand job joints?

I know people who'd never cheat, but partake of hand jobs at massage parlors. No intimacy. Not even as personal as a hooker. Just a guy paying some poor girl to whack him off rotely, as though she were sanding a bannister.

I tend to think it's cheating, but I can see that argument. Every time the debate comes up, the defense is, "If a robot jacked me off, would that be cheating?" And I have to say no to that.

You know people who go to hand job joints? And admit to it? Huh.

[Did you just call me Coltrane?]

Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall

(He's reciting from a Biggie Smalls song.)

TM

Okay.



I didn't actually think that Hank actually anally penetrated Rodman.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by notcasesensitive

I don't think an "emotional affair" is as damaging as a physical affair, but I'll mention that, in my experience*, the key components that are hurtful to the existing relationship are the fact the the person in the emotional affair is typically telling the other man/woman intimate things about the existing relationship and there is in fact physical attraction that just hasn't been acted upon. Those are the things that pose a risk to the existing relationship (and will piss the hell out of the other spouse). Without those, it's just a friendship.

*Both my experience and experiences of my friends.

In a way this describes how penske has been with me lately. He's been showing me naked pictures of coltrane's wife. That would piss her off if she knew right? Especially how touchy ladies get about their bodies when they're pregnant?

[Did you just call me Coltrane?]

Originally Posted by notcasesensitive

You know people who go to hand job joints? And admit to it? Huh.

I know a guy who has been given the go-ahead to get a massage/hand job, but he hasn't done so.

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally Posted by notcasesensitive

You know people who go to hand job joints? And admit to it? Huh.

Among a lot of guys, it's considered a source of humorous discussion. I assure you - many, many men you know have been to hand job joints.

Hell, my wife's been inside one-- looking for a friend of ours who disappeared during a spirited night out. We just figured that's where he'd be.

I am not a hand job guy (accruing from use of some odd moral compass, the shattered remnants of which I still carry, I am unable to either cheat on my wife or pay for sex). Even at bachelor parties. But I don't judge. Seems a harmless enough lark, and frankly, it probably helps to keep many marriages together. If not for that, I'm sure a number of guys would have affairs.

[ThurgreedMarshall]

Originally Posted by Did you just call me Coltrane?

I didn't actually think that Hank actually anally penetrated Rodman.

Understood. Was just explaining the reference.

New topic:

If you haven't seen The Kids are Alright, rent it just for the scenes in which Yaya Dacosta appears. She is currently the most attractive woman in the world. Plus, you get to see her naked boobies.





TM

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally Posted by Did you just call me Coltrane?

I know a guy who has been given the go-ahead to get a massage/hand job, but he hasn't done so.

I've been in one. The squick factor is huge. The flashing light in the skull goes off and you think, "I can go down sooooo many roads of vice... But not this one."

[Replaced_Texan]

Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield

What's your view on hand job joints?

I know people who'd never cheat, but partake of hand jobs at massage parlors. No intimacy. Not even as personal as a hooker. Just a guy paying some poor girl to whack him off rotely, as though she were sanding a bannister.

I tend to think it's cheating, but I can see that argument. Every time the debate comes up, the defense is, "If a robot jacked me off, would that be cheating?" And I have to say no to that.

A (female) friend of mine recently received a non-consensual happy ending at a (purportedly) legitimate massage spa type place.

She got the massage through Living Social, and she assumed it was relatively legit. Afterwards, she looked up the City Search reviews and saw a lot of other people found the place to be creepy and awful.

ETA: oh, yeah, and then she googled the therapist and found his Escort services page.

[Did you just call me Coltrane?]

Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall

Understood. Was just explaining the reference.

And I appreciate the info. I don't really get what you kids listen to these days, so I need help sometimes.