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Slut just seemed like a good summary word. |
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But less we are asked to help answer dtb's question. don't fight her definitions. *edit- lots of girls wouldn't let me do that, but they wouldn't let me touch anything else. |
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Add me to the list of people who wouldn't like this to be called the "slut scale." I've not found a correlation between the willingness to experiment in bed and the willingness to jump in bed with whomever is available, in my (limited) experience. Dan Savage advocated the phrase "Good, Giving & Game" to describe an adventurous sex partner, and while I think that phrase is nearing its sell-by date, I prefer it to "slut" for these purposes. The more important question that may be gained from raw data is whether the men on the board preferred to be in a relationship with high numbers and/or whether they had longer-term or more successful relationships with high numbers (or perhaps corresponding numbers). I remember dating a woman some years ago who seemed determined to bring back the repressed Catholic female stereotype from the dustheap of the 1950's. After a few dates, she memorably called me a "sex fiend," primarily because I wanted to have sex with her. Soon after that, I stopped calling her. I have to admit the repression thing wasn't all bad. She was never going to introduce me to any new sexual positions, but she did introduce me to some restaurants that were new to me. As this is gwinky's list, and as it does not contain any mention of a threesome, despite the fact that several months ago gwinky mentioned wanting to engage in a FMF with her current beau/everlasting gobstopper, I have to chide her for a lack of focus in her lovelife. Some (many? all?) of us are counting on gwinky to hold up her end of the vicarious bargain. |
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1. Eva Mendes (Wasn't she coked up last year? Did that make her hotter to the voters?) 2. Megan Fox (consensus hot-babe-du-jour/Angelina Jolie (#42?!) wannabe) 3. Marisa Miller (board favorite; perhaps TM's #1?) 4. Keeley Hazell (pneumatic Brit) 5. Anne Hathaway (many of you will now stop reading the rest of the list) 6. Alessandra Ambrosio (Victoria's Secret model) 7. Scarlett Johansson 8. Rhianna 9. Kristen Bell (deserving of a top-10 finish) 10. Kate Beckinsale (So hot she makes Brian Posehn angry (NSFW).) That Top Ten is fatally flawed because it doesn't contain either January Jones (#98?) or Christina Hendricks (#52) from Mad Men. You can prefer the icy, Hitchcockian blonde charms of January Jones as lavishly photographed in Vanity Fair to the period-accurate pulchritude of Christina Hendricks as a youtube video mashnote, but one of these women has to make the top 5 for the list to be culturally and sexually relevant. For an off the top of my head top 10, I'd add Sarah Shahi (#85) from Life and The L Word, Cobie Smulders from How I Met Your Mother, and Kaley Cuoco from The Big Bang Theory. She plays a hottie living next door to a couple of physicist/nerds, so you'd think that would hit the AskMen.com demographic in the parent's basement where they live. Keep Megan, Scarlett, Kristen, and Kate and add #12 Emmanuelle Chriqui to my picks for a much-improved list. There are plenty of pics of Sarah Shahi and Kaley Cuoco, but none of the ones I liked were easily linkable/hotlinkable. Google Search will have to do for you. |
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Now, I've been faithfully monomogous since the 80s, so my response will be based on half-remembered and perhaps mythologized liaisons. But I think there is (was) a sweet spot in there around 6 or 7 where almost all the women I loved before fell. There may have been one or two over 8, but if so they went straight to 10 without stopping at 8 or 9. I believe I was friends with all the sluts and slept with the sweet ones, though. |
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okay, pre-marriage I was not with anyone for any length of time that didn't go to 6. there were probably short time things were a 5/6 was never completed, but they would at least have been started (e.g. leading up to something else). Here is some data: my wife walks with about 8 other married women. they talk while walking. one woman brags about encouraging her husband to jerk in the shower to reduce her burden, and she is clear that even when she does let him have some of her likely very frigid love he must pull out. the other seven are shocked by the woman's life, feeling badly not just for the guy, but also the woman. she is apparently unhappy. given this response, I would guess they most of these women go to at least 4. given that they are heavily married Jewesses, I would hesitate to stick my neck out predictions re. steps 5/6. |
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I thought sluttiness had to do with number of partners and willingness to have anonymous sex. But I will give you both answers (although, I don't know how you expect to get an answer based on GWNC's 10 point scale -- is anything above 5 slutty? Do you only approach sluttiness when you hit 8?). Under my definition, I would say that a third of the women I've fucked have been pretty slutty. Under GWNC's (and I have to subsitute "long blowjob" for "3 hour blowjob" because I can count on one hand the number of three hour blowjobs I've had and none of them were from sluts), I would say that maybe 5% of the women I've fucked passed 8 on GWNC's scale. Who knew a sex poll could make me depressed? Where are these GWNCy-type sluts hiding? TM |
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It's the GWNC Freak Scale (and it should be sliding, because that sounds much more freaky). TM |
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You are right though, Jack. I have neglected this. The stumbling block I'm having is that I really think he's the love of my life and I don't want to wreck anything. It could be a good thing, but it could be a bad thing. I'm a little scared right now to find out. Unfortunately also, he's had a bit of turmoil in his life recently that has shaken his confidence, so while a threesome might be just what the doctor ordered, it might also not be. I'm kind of leaving the decision up to him right now. |
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Someone else said this I think, but I'd still be curious to know the answer -- would you consider yourself fortunate or cursed (or somewhere in between) to have a partner who was toward the upper reaches of the Freaky Scale? At what point (if any) would your view morph from "blessed" to "cursed"? |
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I am happiest when my partner is within one or two points of me on the freaky scale. Anything else leaves me feeling just like a freak and not particularly freaky. |
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the main thing to me though is personality and her eyes, she has to have piercing eyes. |
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To be honest, I would rather my partner say, "You dirty bastard. I've never tried that before, but let's do it! I'm game." Or, "Something I've always fantasized about I would like to try with you." You don't want to hear, "That's your dirtiest fantasy? Shit, I did that with like two dozen guys already. Hell, I dedicated a whole year of my life to that one and it wasn't even in my Top 5 Dirtiest Years." Obviously everyone is different and I'm sure a bunch of posters will say they don't feel that way and what happened before doesn't mean anything and they're just appreciative of good sex with the person they love. But I would be lying if I said that wouldn't bother me. In reality, you have to accept the fact that you are probably never going to be someone's first in every freaky category and you can appreciate some skills your partner has picked up somewhere else. And everyone has a different limit on what they're mature or secure enough to handle. So, in short, I would consider myself fortunate to have an SO who was high on the Freaky Scale, but got there with me. I probably wouldn't make someone who had already conquered the Freaky Scale before I met them my SO, but I would count myself fortunate to fuck around with them for awhile. TM |
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ABSOLUTELY. She makes a very good point -- as does TM, with the "freaky, yes, but let's get there more-or-less together" point. |
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my sister married the first boy she dated. where ever they are, they got there together, but I believe they're miserable and the lack of experience is a main factor. |
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ETA: That doesn't work so well in print. |
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