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bold_n_brazen 03-16-2011 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by barely_legal (Post 449567)
Adder, just out of curiousity, if, after you had sex with her, you found out that Woman A went on a date with another guy she met online and really liked him and was going to keep dating him and possibly start sleeping with him while she was also sleeping with you, would you have cared?

Wait, isn't that the very nature of dating?

I go out with you. I like you. Maybe I have sex with you. I go out with him. I like him. Maybe I have sex with him. I go out with some other guy. I like him. Maybe I have sex with him.

And certainly after one or two dates, isn't the expectation that dating isn't really what they're doing kind of ridiculous?

God, women are weird.

[eta: Or, you know, what TM said]

Adder 03-16-2011 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 449593)
God, women are weird.

Amen, sister.

ThurgreedMarshall 03-16-2011 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 449571)
So, as I know everyone wants to be kept abreast, and because I want to do as much as possible to lower Thurgreed's opinion of me as much as possible, we are back on to get together tonight and discuss the situation.

Is this multiple text potential psycho? Because, if it is (and much as I warned Abba about her alcoholic-dog-baby guy, I am warning you right now), you should head in the opposite direction right fucking now. Let's sum up:

She goes out with you once, sends you a bunch of texts, kisses you and warns you not to kiss other girls but then tells you to compare her kissing to your other date's, tells you she has other dates lined up, listens to you tell her the same, seems okay with you going on another date, has you texting her before and after the other fucking date (after one week with her), and then flips out after-the-fact and dumps you for going on the date, before finally getting you to be all apologetic about not doing anything at all (remember, you didn't fuck anyone else yet) such that you chase her down, apologize and "convince" her to give you another date, and she did this all while getting you to unconsciously agree to not date or fuck anyone else.

Are you crazy? If so, proceed.

TM

Adder 03-16-2011 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall (Post 449596)
Is this multiple text potential psycho? Because, if it is (and much as I warned Abba about her alcoholic-dog-baby guy, I am warning you right now), you should head in the opposite direction right fucking now. Let's sum up:

She goes out with you once, sends you a bunch of texts, kisses you and warns you not to kiss other girls but then tells you to compare her kissing to your other date's, tells you she has other dates lined up, listens to you tell her the same, seems okay with you going on another date, has you texting her before and after the other fucking date (after one week with her), and then flips out after-the-fact and dumps you for going on the date, before finally getting you to be all apologetic about not doing anything at all (remember, you didn't fuck anyone else yet) such that you chase her down, apologize and "convince" her to give you another date, and she did this all while getting you to unconsciously agree to not date or fuck anyone else.

Are you crazy? If so, proceed.

TM

I think I might be a little crazy, yeah.

I didn't really convince her to go on another date as much as suggest that maybe we weren't clear with each other on expectation (actually we were but she changed her mind), and maybe we should talk about it in person.

ThurgreedMarshall 03-16-2011 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 449605)
I didn't really convince her to go on another date as much as suggest that maybe we weren't clear with each other on expectation (actually we were but she changed her mind), and maybe we should talk about it in person.

You missed my air quotes around "convinced." She knew what you were going to do when she sent you the email breaking up with you. You are acting like a mark.

TM

Greedy,Greedy,Greedy 03-16-2011 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 449571)
So, as I know everyone wants to be kept abreast, and because I want to do as much as possible to lower Thurgreed's opinion of me as much as possible, we are back on to get together tonight and discuss the situation.

Bottom line: enjoy this while you can, because it will quickly get out of control and you'll either end up married or stalked. My suggestion: just tell her it's all about the phreak and see what things look like in the morning. The crazier, the better.

Fugee 03-16-2011 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 449605)
I think I might be a little crazy, yeah.

I didn't really convince her to go on another date as much as suggest that maybe we weren't clear with each other on expectation (actually we were but she changed her mind), and maybe we should talk about it in person.

Let me make sure I understand.

Woman A is potential psycho texting woman from last week?

Why do you want to wade back into the alligator pit? This situation has great entertainment possibilities for the Board but I don't see the upside for you.

No matter what she says when you have the expectations conversation tonight, it sounds a lot like she really wants an exclusive relationship -- at the very least no matter what she does she isn't happy about you dating other women.

And there's nothing wrong with being a serial monogamist but if she decides she's "OK" with a non-exclusive relationship just to "keep" you, it's gonna get ugly when what she really feels catches up with what she says she feels.

Run far and run fast, grasshopper.

Mmmm, Burger (C.J.) 03-16-2011 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 449605)
I think I might be a little crazy, yeah.

I didn't really convince her to go on another date as much as suggest that maybe we weren't clear with each other on expectation (actually we were but she changed her mind), and maybe we should talk about it in person.

Seems like a conversation had by phone, ideally a prepaid phone where you can dispose of the number later.

Replaced_Texan 03-16-2011 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Fugee (Post 449613)
. . . This situation has great entertainment possibilities for the Board but . . ..

I think that we should just let Adder go from here.

(and I'm really glad that my playa boyfriend became my irl boyfriend and I don't have to worry about this shit anymore.)

Hank Chinaski 03-16-2011 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Replaced_Texan (Post 449615)
I think that we should just let Adder go from here.

he asks for help. although in a "give a man a fish" way, I don't see adder learning to fish on his own any better these last years.

Flinty_McFlint 03-16-2011 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 449605)
I think I might be a little crazy, yeah.

I didn't really convince her to go on another date as much as suggest that maybe we weren't clear with each other on expectation (actually we were but she changed her mind), and maybe we should talk about it in person.

Oh, you may have the other socks fooled into thinking you're a delusional simpleton, but not me. I know for a fact that you're a crafty horny delusional simpleton. Well played, sir.

ThurgreedMarshall 03-16-2011 05:32 PM

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TM

Gattigap 03-16-2011 05:50 PM

Re: Lamest k race win ever
 
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Originally Posted by Atticus Grinch (Post 449577)
Grant Hill's response to the Fab Five in today' NYT actually made me feel a tiny little bit good about Duke and the quality of people it produces. I wonder how long this . . . wait . . . okay, never mind, that's more like it.

Easy to distinguish. Grant Hill was an undergraduate, and the undergrad school turns out the periodic good citizen amongst the douchebags.

Tucker Max, OTOH, attended the law school, which unfailingly produces raging assholes.

Pretty Little Flower 03-16-2011 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall (Post 449596)
Is this multiple text potential psycho? Because, if it is (and much as I warned Abba about her alcoholic-dog-baby guy, I am warning you right now), you should head in the opposite direction right fucking now. Let's sum up:

She goes out with you once, sends you a bunch of texts, kisses you and warns you not to kiss other girls but then tells you to compare her kissing to your other date's, tells you she has other dates lined up, listens to you tell her the same, seems okay with you going on another date, has you texting her before and after the other fucking date (after one week with her), and then flips out after-the-fact and dumps you for going on the date, before finally getting you to be all apologetic about not doing anything at all (remember, you didn't fuck anyone else yet) such that you chase her down, apologize and "convince" her to give you another date, and she did this all while getting you to unconsciously agree to not date or fuck anyone else.

Are you crazy? If so, proceed.

TM

OMG! I think I had relations with that chick. Tell her I say "Hi!"

Flinty_McFlint 03-16-2011 06:11 PM

Re: Lamest k race win ever
 
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Originally Posted by gattigap (Post 449622)
easy to distinguish. Grant hill was an undergraduate, and the undergrad school turns out the periodic good citizen amongst the douchebags.

Tucker max, otoh, attended the law school, which unfailingly produces raging assholes.

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