my life is lacking
 

YOu were the one I was hoping woudl chime in to explain the yoga thing bc I remember you said that you once had a dream and realized you had feelings for your husband you hadnt previously and thats how it started. i thought that seemed similar to the yoga thing.

and I am sorry you had no bzzzzzzzzzzt. i hope this doesnt mean you never will since you are married.

Evolution, baby...
 

I have to agree with the poster who suggested this was a biological response resulting from millenia of evolution. It's kind of a fun thing to feel when it all rushes at you at once. On some fundamental level, your instincts attract you to him. So, date him.

Evolution, baby...
 

So if its biological, is it safe to assume its reciprocal? Mother nature wouldnt play a trick liek that on me would she?

my life is lacking
 

Hmm. I didn't really equate the dream with a bzzzz. Maybe that is some kind of bzzzz.

I love the wheel. It is perhaps my favorite pose. I can see how one would get flashes of insight being in it.

Halloween Poll
 

Nice poll.

However, I grew up in the city, so no haunted houses or experiences for me. If there were a haunted apartment, it wouldn't be long before it was rented to someone with an ad that said, "Spacious pre-war 3br share. Roomate mostly not there."

But I will tell you about the most scared I've ever been. One time, at regular camp, we were at the bottom of the hill for movie night. Our bunks were at the top of the hill and you had to take a winding trail to get to them.

I was like 13 (I think) and we had just watched Nightmare on Elm Street (on beta baby!). Anyway, we were all petrified and huddled close together for the long walk back to the bunks. Some camp counselors decided to scare us and hid in the bushes. One had that red and black striped sweater on and a hat. Fucking scared us all to death. To death.

They spent the rest of the night looking for the kids that lost it and ran for the hills. I wouldn't be surprised if one of those kids was still fucking running. The combination of the dark, unfamiliar surroundings, the movie and other screaming kids made it so that I was and never will be so fucking scared in all my life.

Damn that was fun.

TM

Evolution, baby...
 

I think not. More information is needed.

Just like you haven't told him all (or any) of the ways that you feel, he might not have told you all (or any) of the ways that he feels. He might not feel some sort of fundamental physical connection to you and tingle when he does yoga and thinks about you. But it certainly sounds like he's attracted to you. Otherwise I would think that he would not have put his hands on your hips and tugged at your pants. But he could just be one of those incredibly gregarious guys who related to women in a flirty, sexual way. You have to do some more recon.

Editted to make it clear to which question I was responding.

my life is lacking
 

No, what I meant was the dream told you that someone was the right one for you when you had never even considered the man romantically before. Thats what I meant.

THeres a lot going on with the Wheel. The legs are burning, the hips are opening, your head is upside down, and the breathing is really intense. Its like, you are battling the "pleae god, let me get out of this position" thoughts by just breathing through it. just breath. so how do xrated images of some guy you arent into get in there?

My favorite pose is pigeon. though nothing feels better than getting out of a backbend.

Has this ever happened to anyone
 

Me too. I have felt that electric buzz when I see a woman that sends my heart fluttering. But that's the electric chastity belt my wife put on my johnson giving me 12 volts DC.

P.S. Colin Farrell's best work is the car battery on the nuts scene in "Tigerland."

Halloween Poll - First-hand ghost stories
 

Good friend, hard-core skeptic, practicing for trumpet recital at 2 am in empty music building (keycard-accessible only) that is allegedly 'haunted'. Suddenly hears humungous crashing Bartok rendition from piano room. Goes down hall; lights in room are on (weren't before); music stops dead when she gets to room and the lights go off. Unlocks room; turns on lights; room is completely empty except for piano. She never went back to that building alone again.

Evolution, baby...
 

Based upon what you said (him fixing your pants, etc.), I think that it's safe to assume that it's reciprocal in your case. Ask the boy out, and good luck.

But (to answer your hypothetical question), yes, Mother Nature has been known to play tricks like that. Ask any of your friends who have been stalked by that guy they talked to once in the line at Starbucks or whatever situation. Unrequited bzzzt in action.

Has this ever happened to anyone
 

But sometimes that bzzz is really just a gurgle from that curried bean and broccolli burrito that I had for breakfast.

Halloween Poll
 

I wish I'd gone to your camp. Girl Scout Camp sucked.

Interesting point about ghosts and cities. Some cities are really haunted (e.g.: York, Boston is supposed to be pretty good). Some aren't. NYC really doesn't seem that haunted - not as much as you'd expect for how old it is and how large the population is. The population is so transient, I guess that has an effect (both on "ghosts" sticking and on stories getting a chance to take off).

Article about NYC ghosts - http://www.nypress.com/16/43/realestate/realestate2.cfm


edited to correct ie/eg error - I hate those.

BMB update for Paigow
 

James and Wes are over...

Boy Meets Boy's James Getzlaff and Wes Culwell have broken up, "in the grand tradition of gay reality television couples breaking up," as Let Me Get This Straight reports. On Oct. 17, Wes wrote on his blog Wesonality (that's what it's called, really) that the two "are still really great friends." He also advertises for a replacement: "if you're under 35 - in the LA area - have a steady job and an amazing sense of adventure drop me a line!" Wes' web site also reveals that he's an actor, although Bravo billed him as a "fundraiser." (realityblurred)

I'm sure we are all shocked (Shocked!) to learn that Wes is an actor.

Resume.

BMB update for Paigow
 

Getzlaff? Is that last name for real? And I thought Wes and his bad nosejob lived in TX. Has NOBODY learned that the reality tv to actor transiation does not happen?

What is a blog?

BMB update for Paigow
 

Wes lived in San Diego. According to his site, he just moved to LA. I'll leave it to someone hipper than I to explain blogs.