Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

I think you are confusing it with the Rule against Perpetuities.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

That is not mathematically possible.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

what are you a Quant? oh it's the thought that counts. for emphasis.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Yes. It wasn't easy being green.....Also, as I'm sure you are aware, given your pre-med and JD statii, gigantism, also known as giantism, a condition characterized by excessive growth and height significantly above average and caused by an over production of human growth hormone, can result in multiple health problems involving the afflicted's circulatory or skeletal system, leading to early death. Before one's time.

Sadly, these results occur even in the jolly giants.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

I understood you the first time. But the situation is what it is -- you chose to have a child with McDouche and he turned out to be a liar and a cheat. All the anger in the world isn't going to change that so all the anger does is hurt you and hinder your ability to be the best mom you can be. And as TM and others pointed out, kids who shuffle between their parents can turn out to be happy, well-adjusted kids.

You can't do anything now about the fact that sometimes you have to let her go to spend time with McDouche. What you can do is focus your energies on providing a stable loving home for her with your fiance and work on letting go of the anger.

The very best thing you can do for your daughter is to start seeing a counselor STAT to work on your anger about the situation. Holding on to it will poison your soul. It hurts you (and by extension your daughter) more than it hurts your ex.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

not to be a timmy, but she could convince the young child she will be there 200%. it is mathematically possible to so fool a kid. OTOH she later advises Abba to actually be there 500%. that is mathematically impossible absent some cloning clinic being opened in minnesota.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

I have it on good authority, that Blue Earth, MN, is some kind of miraculous place.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

There are support groups for this sort of thing. Bottom line is, she's his daughter, too. Unless he's an actual threat to her safety and well-being, he has a right to see her.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

It was, but many vandals have chipped away at its foundations over the centuries and it is now much smaller.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

I am angry that he deceived me into having her at all. I am heartbroken that she has to have a life of shuffling around. I am heartbroken that she will have a constant stream of "Daddy's girlfriends." I am working on a court order that he cannot have any sexual partner around her unless he has been committed to that partner for more than 3 months. I do not think my baby should be "dating" his fuckbuddies. He continually lies to me about where she is when she is with him and who she is with.

Also, he and his family have actively tried to destroy my life, from harrassing my sister at her job to sending threatening facebook messages to my fiance. That cannot possibly in be in my daughter's best interest. His parents have brought a motion (they lack standing, so good luck) that THEY should have my daughter every Wednesday and Friday, without interference from McDouche or me. I mean, it's insane what is going on.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Big fat red italicized 2 on this. Don't let the ABBAKid grow up feeling and being made to deal with your anger and resentment at McDouche. That is the biggest favor you could possibly do for her, given the circumstances. Deal with your anger and find a way to make it work without her feeling put in the middle. Cause that sucks so hard.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

I actually DID let my anger go and did my best to work with McDouche and he and his family CONTINUE to harrass me. I can only do so much. I met him 99% of the way despite the fact that I have every right to be angry, and he would not move even 1% because he is so incensed that I would have the audacity to move on with my fiance after the way McDouch treated me. His whole family is in on it. I cannot take it anymore. McDouche was actively hostile to me in front of our daughter, as was his entire family.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Don't recall where, but some states/courts have granted grandparent rights, so don't just dismiss the possibility based on lack of standing.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

You really think it is my child's best interest to spend two days per week, every week, with people who are actively hostile to her mother for not staying with their cheating lying stealing son? Really? Fuck off. They see my baby during McDouche's time. Seriously, so maybe MY parents should see her every Monday and Tuesday, and then his dad and stepmom every Wednesday and Friday, and then his mom and stepdad every Thursday, and maybe I, as the woman who carried her for nine months and nursed her for a year, should settle for just a few hours visitation on Saturday. FUCK OFF.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Check, please.