Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

I haven't been right about anything in a very long time -- Hank will tell you. But there is (again) some very good advice on here right now, including being prepared to demonstrate to a judge that Grandma and Grandpa McDouche should not be entitled to any visitation rights that cut in to your already limited time. I am thinking that emails, facebook threats and other concrete manifestations of their evilness would be particularly useful.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

You are not going to get what you are looking for on this board.

No one is going to tell you to cut and run with your kid. No one is going to tell you that it would be right to keep her from your ex, or from his parents. Well, maybe someone will, but no one who's here now.

Part of parenting in a broken home is trying to find some peace. You're going to have to broker it, since you seem to be the only one capable of rational thought. It might mean that you don't get to make all the rules (for example, why do you need to know where the kid is when she's with daddy? I don't ask my ex where he is when he has our kid.... I assume he's being a good dad, and as a general rule, that assumption proves true.). But you're going to have to rise above it. For the sake of your kid.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Yes.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Because he was having random fuckbuddies watch our child so he could do whatever he wanted during his "parenting time" as a way to not have to pay child support. He lied about this for months, but eventually fessed up. I am not raising my child with his parents or with his random fuckbuddies. If he is going to be a father, then he should be a father and be with our child during his parenting time.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

And I have NEVER tried to keep my child from McDouche or his parents. I have asked that they be honest and respectful me and they refuse. I don't know what else I can do at this point. They make demands and if I don't cater to them, they go on the rampage. I am her mother. I have rights too. I am so heartbroken because I really have tried and I keep getting taken advantage of. Do they want me dead? Would that make them happy? Were my sins in not allowing McDouche to continue to cheat and lie and steal from me so bad that I should be stoned?

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

I'm just saying, I don't think you get to have a say what he does with his parenting time.

Unless you are willing to give him a say in what you do with yours.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Wait a cotton-pickin' minute, here. They spelled cordial like that and their motions have not been summarily rejected?? What kind of kangaroo courts do you people have up there?

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

My sister is enjoying having some time to herself. For example, she went to Alaska during the week that by ex-BIL had my nieces for summer vacation.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Even if he is not present for his parenting time? Why does Elin get to say Tiger cannot have his random sluts around their kids? I do not want random sluts raising my child while he goes out with his friends when my child could be home with me, her mother.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

The best that you can hope for is to tell the judge what is happening and hope s/he believes you and does something to limit your ex's and his parents' custody rights. Either way, you are going to have to deal. If he has people babysitting and he believes they are capable, there isn't much you can do. You can try to show the judge that the arrangement is a sham, but I don't know what else you can do about what he is doing. If the child is not in danger of physical harm, then you're more pissed off about what he is doing to you (and the fact that he's using your daughter as a pawn to do it). But I'll tell you this right now and you had better listen this time: If you decide you're "not raising [your] child with his parents or with his random fuckbuddies" and you do something rash or stupid, like keep her from him or run with the kid or whatever, you will be playing right into their hands and you will absolutely lose.

And how random are these fuckbuddies anyway? Complete strangers? Friends with benefits? New girlfriends every few months? How do you know so much about his fuckbuddies and how much they watch your kid?

TM

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Is he allowed to tell you when you can have a babysitter and who said babysitter can be?

Holy crap
 

Three hot chicks from belfast in derry on holiday. Trouble. In the best sense of the word.

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

Stop it. Jesus. Fuck them. Figure the custody rights out with the court and ignore what motivates them. For Christsakes. Concentrate on your daughter when you have her. Ignore their phone calls, facebook messages, threats and other bullshit. Hand your daughter over when you're supposed to and take her back when you're supposed to. You cannot change his behavior. Inform the courts and proceed with being a good mother as best you can from there.

TM

Re: Holy crap
 

And you need to either have sex or stop posting these updates, because, frankly, it's getting kind of sad.

TM

Re: The thread where Spring has sprung, and Penske has risen from the law. Word!
 

I think it was a typo. They meant to say that the next move will "not be so corgi," as in "completely unlike a small breed of inbred lapdog."