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Sidd Finch 09-22-2009 02:46 PM

Re: Love and Money
 
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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall (Post 400863)
Are you all really this bored? E/O's boyfriend, family and friends are probably not really accusing her of being an idiot. What he is saying (and what they have picked up on) most likely is, "I am here for you and this is an area in which I want to and am very much able to help out, so please use me as a resource. And I want you to feel like you should." Jesus.

TM

Great. So now what do we talk about?

How 'bout those Resurgent Forty-Niners, people? Here's hoping they stomp all over Favre's sorry old ass next week.

Greedy,Greedy,Greedy 09-22-2009 02:53 PM

Re: Love and Money
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall (Post 400863)
Are you all really this bored?

Stop and look at what you are doing. You know the answer to this.

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E/O's boyfriend, family and friends are probably not really accusing her of being an idiot. What he is saying (and what they have picked up on) most likely is, "I am here for you and this is an area in which I want to and am very much able to help out, so please use me as a resource, and if you don't I'll be upset with you, you unappreciative bitch."
Fixed that for you.

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What they are saying is "someone wants to pay you for your services and you're saying no? What do you think you are, better than us?"
Good, I'm glad you caught that part, too.

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Jesus.
Amen.

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TM
G^3

ThurgreedMarshall 09-22-2009 02:55 PM

Re: Love and Money
 
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Originally Posted by Greedy,Greedy,Greedy (Post 400873)
Stop and look at what you are doing. You know the answer to this.

Fixed that for you.

Good, I'm glad you caught that part, too.

Amen.

G^3

Your posts are stupid.

TM

LessinSF 09-22-2009 03:02 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 400855)
I'm not looking for funding... just a stupid medallion stamp.

And I'm not blowing nobody for that.

I would contact Plated, but I don't think he knows you.

bold_n_brazen 09-22-2009 03:04 PM

Re: Just Money
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by LessinSF (Post 400876)
I would contact Plated, but I don't think he knows you.


I won't blow him either.

Adder 09-22-2009 03:07 PM

Re: Just Money
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 400877)
I won't blow him either.

You are beginning to sound like as much fun as evenodds.

Flinty_McFlint 09-22-2009 03:10 PM

Re: Love and Money
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick (Post 400861)
She'd probably be too dazzled by my hotness to have the strength to make up a nickname.

Really? I was going to go with Ma'am or Madam.

Flinty_McFlint 09-22-2009 03:11 PM

Re: Love and Money
 
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Originally Posted by dtb (Post 400864)
A cab?

Go back to sleep Grandma, I'll wake you up when America's Got Talent is on.

taxwonk 09-22-2009 03:13 PM

Re: Love and Money
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400804)
You say control, he says share. To-may-to, To-mah-to.

The luckiest man alive tells me everything all the time, and he asks my advice on decisions large and small. I am not nearly as forthcoming with him, which drives him crazy, but we are both deeply involved in each other's lives and businesses.

I prefer to maintain financial independence from him -- I buy my own gala tables and wardrobe, pay all of my own expenses, and maintain my own household, which I have done with every successful man I have dated, no matter what they have offered.

My initial question was essentially whether it was reasonable for me to not go to my SO, knowing that if I went to him for advice, I would get that . . . and money.

In our world, private loans are de rigueur. As I said in my initial post, everyone (family, close friends, even my [non-OM] ex) gave me a hard time about going to a third party lender before I spoke to the LMA.

I still think I was right to be independent from him, while everyone else (including him) thinks I am an idiot.

He can give me money. We don't have a relationship to compromise.

taxwonk 09-22-2009 03:15 PM

Re: Love and Money
 
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Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick (Post 400824)
I bought my own living room table.

Flower can make it gala for you. Thurgreed can help, too, but only if you want it Princess-y.

Fugee 09-22-2009 03:16 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 400877)
I won't blow him either.

This cracks me up when it is right over your "signature" line.

Wouldn't your family friend, the oft-married Mr. Perelman, be a better source of a Z medallion contact than most of us?

taxwonk 09-22-2009 03:16 PM

Re: Love and Money
 
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Originally Posted by Sidd Finch (Post 400832)
Just curious -- what did these people think of you turning down the $500 for a blowjob offer?

They were appalled until they found out she doesn't swallow.

dtb 09-22-2009 03:18 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by Fugee (Post 400886)
This cracks me up when it is right over your "signature" line.

Wouldn't your family friend, the oft-married Mr. Perelman, be a better source of a Z medallion contact than most of us?

I'm sure Ron doesn't busy himself with those details. It's a bunch of cave-dwellers who work in the bowels of banks who handle that garbage.

Ew. I said "bowels".

taxwonk 09-22-2009 03:18 PM

Re: Just Money
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 400855)
I'm not looking for funding... just a stupid medallion stamp.

And I'm not blowing nobody for that.

I knew getting remarried was going to take all the fun right out of you.

Hank Chinaski 09-22-2009 03:20 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by dtb (Post 400888)
I'm sure Ron doesn't busy himself with those details. It's a bunch of cave-dwellers who work in the bowels of banks who handle that garbage.

Ew. I said "bowels".

bankers? wasn't there a sock here who always had bankers coming on to her at coffee shops? who was that again? she might knopw someone.

taxwonk 09-22-2009 03:22 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski (Post 400890)
bankers? wasn't there a sock here who always had bankers coming on to her at coffee shops? who was that again? she might knopw someone.

You're thinking of one of Penske's socks.

greatwhitenorthchick 09-22-2009 03:22 PM

Re: Just Money
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Fugee (Post 400886)
This cracks me up when it is right over your "signature" line.

Wouldn't your family friend, the oft-married Mr. Perelman, be a better source of a Z medallion contact than most of us?

Now you've done it, Fugee.

Sidd Finch 09-22-2009 03:31 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 400879)
You are beginning to sound like as much fun as evenodds.

Says the guy who won't eat fried chicken, or even try to eat the cute paralegal.

i was penske 09-22-2009 03:34 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by taxwonk (Post 400891)
You're thinking of one of Penske's socks.

2, but not a reputable source. Like Less, I would contact Plated, but I don't think he would take my calls.

bold_n_brazen 09-22-2009 03:40 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 400879)
You are beginning to sound like as much fun as evenodds.


'Cause i woulnd't blow Plated? Hell, I could give you an extensive list of the people I would blow.

evenodds 09-22-2009 03:41 PM

Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
The bride is having her attendants at her evening wedding wear tea-length suits. (Not dinner suits, suit suits with longer skirts, to evoke her 1930s theme.)

How much deference does one give a bride in determining the wedding attire of her guests?

bold_n_brazen 09-22-2009 03:43 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
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Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400898)
The bride is having her attendants at her evening wedding wear tea-length suits. (Not dinner suits, suit suits with longer skirts, to evoke her 1930s theme.)

How much deference does one give a bride in determining the wedding attire of her guests?

Do you mean, "Do I have to wear something to fit in with the stupid 1930's theme?"

If so, the answer is no.

John Phoenix 09-22-2009 03:44 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 400897)
'Cause i woulnd't blow Plated? Hell, I could give you an extensive list of the people I would blow.

http://www.emofaces.com/en/emoticons...g-emoticon.gif

bold_n_brazen 09-22-2009 03:44 PM

Re: Just Money
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Fugee (Post 400886)
This cracks me up when it is right over your "signature" line.

Wouldn't your family friend, the oft-married Mr. Perelman, be a better source of a Z medallion contact than most of us?

I was just kind of hoping that someone here worked with or for a bank who had said medallion. Would have saved me having to dig deeper in the rolodex.

Thanks, y'all.

evenodds 09-22-2009 03:44 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
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Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 400899)
Do you mean, "Do I have to wear something to fit in with the stupid 1930's theme?"

If so, the answer is no.

I am wearing formal because it's evening. I am just curious as to how much of a bitch I am being.

Fugee 09-22-2009 03:46 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick (Post 400892)
Now you've done it, Fugee.

I was being serious. Except for the oft-married part, which is true but I suppose not very nice to point out to someone's friend.

Sorry about that, BnB.

bold_n_brazen 09-22-2009 03:47 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400902)
I am wearing formal because it's evening. I am just curious as to how much of a bitch I am being.

I don't think you are being a bitch at all.

Of course, my bitch-ometer is sometimes out of whack.

i was penske 09-22-2009 03:50 PM

Re: Just Money
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 400897)
'Cause i woulnd't blow Plated? Hell, I could give you an extensive list of the people I would blow.

Given Plated's iconic status relative to the foundations of this community, it seems to me, as one of the few old skoolish socks here, that if there is an extensive list of potential blowees that he is not on, it really adds insult to injury.

At the risk if making it worse, did Adder make the list?

Mmmm, Burger (C.J.) 09-22-2009 03:50 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400902)
I am wearing formal because it's evening. I am just curious as to how much of a bitch I am being.

Are you an attendant? The choices are wear what she suggests or decline the invitation to be an attendant. You can tell her money is tight or something.

If you're not an attendant, what is the issue? Whether to tell her she's bat-shit crazy for proposing such dresses?

Adder 09-22-2009 03:50 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen (Post 400897)
'Cause i woulnd't blow Plated? Hell, I could give you an extensive list of the people I would blow.

That's good to hear, but there was a disturbing trend developing.

Also, I am a plated sock.

But tell us about this list. It sounds infinitely more interesting than tea length suits at weddings. Which isn't saying much.

Fugee 09-22-2009 03:51 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400902)
I am wearing formal because it's evening. I am just curious as to how much of a bitch I am being.

That depends on whether you use the phrase "stupid 1930s theme" in hearing distance of the bride!

Fugee 09-22-2009 03:52 PM

Re: Just Money
 
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Originally Posted by Adder (Post 400907)
Also, I am a plated sock.

In your dreams, grasshopper.

Hank Chinaski 09-22-2009 03:53 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400902)
I am wearing formal because it's evening. I am just curious as to how much of a bitch I am being.

theme schmeam, just remember what taxwonk always tells us- what matters most is that the outfit be all co-ordinated:

http://peopleofwalmart.com/wp-conten...009/09/186.jpg

Did you just call me Coltrane? 09-22-2009 03:54 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400902)
I am wearing formal because it's evening. I am just curious as to how much of a bitch I am being.

So, you're going to dress more formally than the wedding party? Is your SO wearing a dinner jacket?

Yikes.

Replaced_Texan 09-22-2009 04:03 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
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Originally Posted by Fugee (Post 400908)
That depends on whether you use the phrase "stupid 1930s theme" in hearing distance of the bride!

I dunno why it's so hard to do both (or why theme weddings are stupid). How hard is it to pick out the more vintage-y dress in your closet when deciding what to wear that night?

I mean, jesus, this late 1930s era dress was the best part of the movie:

http://www.thefashionrow.com/images/273.jpg

dtb 09-22-2009 04:07 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
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Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski (Post 400910)
theme schmeam, just remember what taxwonk always tells us- what matters most is that the outfit be all co-ordinated:

http://peopleofwalmart.com/wp-conten...009/09/186.jpg

What are the chances that someone in that kind of getup would be staring longingly into the frozen-foods case?

evenodds 09-22-2009 04:07 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Did you just call me Coltrane? (Post 400911)
So, you're going to dress more formally than the wedding party? Is your SO wearing a dinner jacket?

Yikes.

That's the issue.

The bride is marrying my cousin. Aside from her evocative theme (yay Great Depression), our family has planned and is paying for the wedding. My aunts and my mother explained evening = formal, but the bride stuck to her guns on what her attendants will wear.

We are all wearing formal, so I am just curious about the emotional clusterfuck into which I am flying tomorrow.

I am wearing a 30s-ish gown, but yes, we will all be more formal than the wedding party.

Mmmm, Burger (C.J.) 09-22-2009 04:10 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
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Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400914)
I am just curious about the emotional clusterfuck into which I am flying tomorrow.
.

Is the bride curious about the emotional clusterfuck family into which she is marrying?

Adder 09-22-2009 04:11 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
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Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400914)
My aunts and my mother explained evening = formal, but the bride stuck to her guns on what her attendants will wear.

Oh my, what a terrible offensive prole your cousin is marrying! Why hasn't Poppy spoken to him about the disgrace he is doing to the good family name?

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We are all wearing formal, so I am just curious about the emotional clusterfuck into which I am flying tomorrow.
At least the ladies of the family have found a way to make a passive agressive statement of their superiority. Bully on you!

Replaced_Texan 09-22-2009 04:11 PM

Re: Wedding Attire Etiquette
 
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Originally Posted by evenodds (Post 400914)
That's the issue.

The bride is marrying my cousin. Aside from her evocative theme (yay Great Depression), our family has planned and is paying for the wedding. My aunts and my mother explained evening = formal, but the bride stuck to her guns on what her attendants will wear.

We are all wearing formal, so I am just curious about the emotional clusterfuck into which I am flying tomorrow.

I am wearing a 30s-ish gown, but yes, we will all be more formal than the wedding party.

Hopefully she and her husband will be enjoying her wedding too much to care what people are wearing.


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