Cybersex
 

The gay bathhouse thing was a joke based on his interview with Dan Savage. PLF will be mad at me for clarifying this, but c'est la vie.

Cybersex
 

in the bible it says that if you lust after someone you commit adultry in your heart. personally, this seems like kind of an idiotic strategy if taken literally for a religion to adopt - because if you have already sinned and committed adultry in your heart by lusting after someone, you might as well have sex with them, but that is what the bible said so many fundamentalist christians believe that if you lust after someone you commit adultry in your heart. they kind of ignore the context that it was when Jesus stopped the pharasies from stoning a woman to death for adultry by saying "let he who is without this sin, cast the first stone" so that the lust in your heart thing was really about not judging other people not literally that lusting in your heart equals adultry.

where exactly did she get her ph.d? i'm guessing one of those fundamentalist christian universities like bob jones university or liberty university? because her position as you describe it is really a fundamentalist christian position. almost anyone other than a fundamentalist chirstian sees a real difference between merely lusting after someone and having sex with them.

queer eye
 

The best episode so far is the episode with Butch, the set builder/artist who looks like an axe murderer before they work on him. Nice guy, and seems like the change did him the most good.

As for shaving after showering, my informal test of this for the last two weeks seems to indicate that this is the way to go. Face is smoother and I'm not as hairy late in the day. Also picked up an after shave gel I liked and it helps out too.

queer eye
 

A straight razor is what they use, actually. Cocoa butter clogs multi-bladed razors. Much the same effect otherwise, I'd imagine.

queer eye
 

I don't think he ought to. The man has not aged well. He was much better off as a spindly geek.

John Cusack, however, has improved immeasurably. What a transformation!

Cybersex
 

He's like #6 on the list of everyday things that annoy me so much I hate them. He's after Citibank, but ahead of Andy Pettitte and his special relationship with God (dated, but still annoying).

protein bars
 

I'm talking true elites, not your shit sub-3 marathoners (which I am). I'm slow and so is everyone else not breaking 2:40. And those going sub 2:40 are still just good club runners. Not really that fast. I'm talking sub-2:20 guys and sub 2:45 women. In fact, most of the sub-3 guys I know gave up gels well before they qualified for Boston. Paula Radcliffe, KK, Geb, etc. - they mostly only drink their own mixture of sport's drink or water during the race.

queer eye
 

Unfortunately the same can't be said for his sister Joan. As the Cusacks are from Chicago, Joan is currently all over the TV hawking a new cellular phone company in the area... She is bug-eyed, weird looking and has an annoying voice.

queer eye
 

Which is what makes him believable as a guy who was in a horrific accident and spent six years in a coma. I imagine that most of us wouldn't come out of something like that looking too good.

See he looks the exact same to me - had a crush on him then, have a crush on him now. Except in America's Sweethearts or whatever that thing was. I couldn't get past the show premise to see if I was still commiting adultry in my heart.

Cybersex
 

I won't get into what is or is not adultery, because I care little about that. I do think that if someone is going outside of their relationship for sexual fulfillment (unless it is sanctioned by the other person in the relationship and it somehow enhances something within the relationship - to each his own), then that is a big red flag that there is something wrong in the relationship. If John is sitting up at night talking to some cyberwoman to get his rocks off while Sally sleeps in the other room, they aren't doing things right for their mutual long term happiness.

Cybersex
 

The simple test to use is to ask yourself whether your partner would go bullshit if you mentioned it to them, or vice versa. Would he mind if you told him you'd been doing a graphic PM play-by-play with some shmo? Would you mind hearing the same thing from your SO? If no, no problem. If yes, cut it out.

And I always thought it was hilarious that Jimmy Carter (whom I adore) did his penitential "lusting in my heart" thing interview with Playboy magazine--which husbands everywhere, of course, read only for the articles.

Cybersex
 

All the more reason to never get married, I suppose, thereby avoiding the adultery problem altogether.

My guess is that the PhD got her degree from whichever correspondence 'college' Sally Struthers pitches on TV.

Cybersex
 

Even worse (as EO and I have discussed before) is Bill Hemmer. What a total waste of space. He may actually be a cyborg anchor man. A caricature of all bad anchor traits rolled into one vacuous man.

Cybersex
 

What if you're just taking care of your own business by yourself and not involving third parties? You're looking outside your partner for some sexual fulfillment, but not to someone else. Would that still be a red flag?

And if it is, does anyone want to buy a used, but still working, "massager"?

Cybersex
 

Hey, can you please consider changing your avatar before I start having screaming nightmares about murderous dinner-roll mascots?

Many thanks.