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Originally posted by patentparanyc
Exactly, so apparantly, a whole bunch of visiting and non visiting attorneys at my firm feel the same way and a few bankers on the street. Since I am way under 40, and not so ogreish, and I dress well, it is possible I am not delusional and some men do check me out. It never meant "HI, I meet the strict standard of Thurgreed's hotness tester-upper." I mean please. We all know he's like a modelizer or some unreachable standard. And if I was pleased a little weight came off so I got a little overzealous about the results. So sue me. I am so sorry some men do like curves, and nice hair and a [even he said I ain't ugly] and decent legs and well dressed. It's better than those ugly-assed tourists out there in T. Square.
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I know I am going to regret this but...............
Looking at your posts is like watching a police car chase on "The Worlds Most Amazing Videos". You just know the outcome is going to be bad but you just can't look away. You have also made the FB board infinitely more interesting, just like a gruesome car accident can make you look at a side of the road on your commute you have never noticed before.
I realize you asked for this, and told TM to give you an honest assessment, but I am a strong believer that when a female asks you if she is fat or unattractive you never tell them the truth. No exceptions. It is similar to the situation if you are hiding Jews in your attic, and the Nazis ask you if you are hiding Jews, you always, always lie.
But having said that, I am going back to the politics board; I just can't watch you humiliate yourself anymore. It is too painful. You really need to reread Bold and Brazen's post concerning this issue like six or seven times. It is spot on. And then get some therapy. Seriously. I am not kidding. The fact that you need acceptance and affirmations from completely anonymous posters on the internet is just not a good sign. I am almost sure you won't listen to me and will lash out at me for this post, but I had to give it a shot.
