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		| Originally posted by patentparanyc I've gotta say--it is no coincidence I married hubby.  he has a very strong personality and can deal with me.  I'd steamroll anyone else.  flat like pancake.
 
 Just had a convo with my office mate about this....guys are usually either doormats or players and jerks.  nothing really in between.....so when you do strike that balance...it is a good thing.  Some dude hanging on your leg is most lame.
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  What is an "officemate"?  And no; people give thumbs up etc. to encourage lardasses to exercise.  It's kind of like the "good for you!" for the mentally disabled epileptic paraplegic who makes the basket at the special olympics.