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					Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall  Either very carefully or out in the open.  For you I would recommend out in the open.  If you find that you're scared to lose one of these dudes, you shouldn't be dating two guys anyway.  And you just figured out which one you want.  If you're not scared to lose one, just tell them both that you got out of a serious relationship and aren't looking for another one, but would like to hang out from time to time.
 I've only done it in transition.  All the other times (long in the past), I was just cheatin'.
 
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 Excellent post.  I've never dated more than one person at a time, but generally speaking if I want to date someone other than the first guy, it is pretty clear to me I don't see a future with the first guy, which is fine, of course, so long as everyone is on the same page!  Also, yay Pretty Lady!