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Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen
I'm not saying it didn't feel like rape to her, but it probably didn't feel like rape to him.
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This this this. And a good question is whether the language and coercive power of criminal law was ever the right tool for ensuring the positive outcomes of good sex, rather than a way to identify and incarcerate the men who would engage in sex regardless of consent. This is an area where the victim's experience of the act cannot be vindicated, but the aggressor's mental state is primary and must be punished vigorously when bad.
