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					Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield  I wasn't going for a Mars/Venus thing.  It was a meta point.  
 But, since you offered... It is true guys don't talk about sex as much.  I couldn't imagine saying to a buddy of mine, "So I'm in bed with [insert wife's name] and we're going reverse cowgirl, and it doesn't feel all that great.  She likes me to reach around and play with her from the front during it, you know-- [Insert his wife's name] likes that too, I'm sure.  Anyway, I've got this wicked tennis elbow, and when I'm trying to get my arm around her..."
 
 This isn't done.  We don't share like that.  Thank God.  (We reserve such talk for anonymous chat boards.)
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 I think I missed your meta point.
The women I know don't get as graphic as your example either. But I would expect pain to be discussed -- at the very least for the question to come up whether it always hurts for anyone else.
Maybe I'm a wimp about pain but I can't imagine silently putting up with it.