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[Sidd Finch]

Originally Posted by LessinSF

I had the same question - why not just go to a gay bar or bathclub and get it for free? Well, it turns out his gay (but who was once married and is sometimes attracted to chicks) partner likes to meet female escorts at a spa, where he claims he only talks to them. The story is still developing / unraveling.

The mind reels. What's the point of being a gay man if you're going to pay women just to talk to you?

[LessinSF]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

The mind reels. What's the point of being a gay man if you're going to pay women just to talk to you?

Being close friends with several "gay" men has taught me nothing, if not that human sexuality is a complex, fucked-up thing. I know at least two gay couples whose lives are basically sexless with each other, but often filled with flings and porn, while they live together and don't fuck. Just like many married straights. Maybe that's why they want the right to marry - that way they have an excuse for being gay and not getting laid.

[Shape Shifter]

Anyone we know?

[Sidd Finch]

Originally Posted by LessinSF

Being close friends with several "gay" men has taught me nothing, if not that human sexuality is a complex, fucked-up thing. I know at least two gay couples whose lives are basically sexless with each other, but often filled with flings and porn, while they live together and don't fuck. Just like many married straights. Maybe that's why they want the right to marry - that way they have an excuse for being gay and not getting laid.

Compared to being willing to fuck Paigow, that actually doesn't seem all that weird.

[Icky Thump]

Originally Posted by LessinSF

H.S." "Bitchin'", as in Camaro

Elementary School: "Choice" and/or "choi"

"Rock" also need "rocks."

Sonic. Nuclear.

[ThurgreedMarshall]

TM

[Pretty Little Flower]

Hank, this Miguel chap is like a modern day you. I think you should reach out to him and tell him how you too entered the big H as an isolated, unpolished, intimidated Detroit kid, but were well entrenched in the Porcellian Club by senior year.


http://www.boston.com/news/education...stPop_Emailed1

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by Pretty Little Flower

Hank, this Miguel chap is like a modern day you. I think you should reach out to him and tell him how you too entered the big H as an isolated, unpolished, intimidated Detroit kid, but were well entrenched in the Porcellian Club by senior year.


http://www.boston.com/news/education...stPop_Emailed1

2. I remember welcome week my suite mates dragged me to the local brothel. they all paid to have sex with Atticus's wife, meanwhile, I was stuck with using the coupon from the school paper for a free handjob from GGG's mom. I guess it worked out because my suitemates keep having these kids call them on father's day, but still it was sort of awkward at the time.


just tricking- I never even met anyone here let alone had sex with their women folk. all in fun!!!!

[Atticus Grinch]

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski

just tricking- I never even met anyone here

People here avoiding or being ashamed of trips to Detroit I can understand. But specializing one's practice to intellectual property generated solely by people from Detroit, or infringed solely by people from Detroit, could very well be the saddest thing I have seen on the Internet since that story about the guy whose balls got ripped off by his rampaging pet chimpanzee. Or the last thing posted by NFH, whichever was more recent.

[dtb]

Originally Posted by LessinSF

Being close friends with several "gay" men has taught me nothing, if not that human sexuality is a complex, fucked-up thing. I know at least two gay couples whose lives are basically sexless with each other, but often filled with flings and porn, while they live together and don't fuck. Just like many married straights. Maybe that's why they want the right to marry - that way they have an excuse for being gay and not getting laid.

Yeah - what's up with that? What is it about the "I do"s that so often leads to the scarcity of marital relations (an obvious misnomer)? Surely not all marriages are sexless, but so many are.

Maybe it's because it's such a hassle breaking up that people don't, but had the couple not been married, they'd have broken up. But that doesn't explain the unmarried gay couple.

[greatwhitenorthchick]

Originally Posted by dtb

Yeah - what's up with that? What is it about the "I do"s that so often leads to the scarcity of marital relations (an obvious misnomer)? Surely not all marriages are sexless, but so many are.

Maybe it's because it's such a hassle breaking up that people don't, but had the couple not been married, they'd have broken up. But that doesn't explain the unmarried gay couple.

I think it is just a simple fact that monogamy leads to a decrease in sex with that person. It has not happened to me yet with my current boyfriend, but we've only been together a year and he's the horniest 26 yo in the universe. But I think it's inevitable. The question is, what do you do to cope? Do you accept it, or do you cheat?

[Greedy,Greedy,Greedy]

Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick

I think it is just a simple fact that monogamy leads to a decrease in sex with that person. It has not happened to me yet with my current boyfriend, but we've only been together a year and he's the horniest 26 yo in the universe. But I think it's inevitable. The question is, what do you do to cope? Do you accept it, or do you cheat?

This would not be true if people would just saved themselves for marriage, like God intended.

[dtb]

Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick

I think it is just a simple fact that monogamy leads to a decrease in sex with that person. It has not happened to me yet with my current boyfriend, but we've only been together a year and he's the horniest 26 yo in the universe. But I think it's inevitable. The question is, what do you do to cope? Do you accept it, or do you cheat?

That's sort of depressing (not your happy present circumstance). It doesn't have to be that way though, certainly, does it?

I'll report back in another year or so. You do the same. It will be the definitive study on whether marriage is the killing factor.

[Fugee]

Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick

I think it is just a simple fact that monogamy leads to a decrease in sex with that person. It has not happened to me yet with my current boyfriend, but we've only been together a year and he's the horniest 26 yo in the universe. But I think it's inevitable. The question is, what do you do to cope? Do you accept it, or do you cheat?

It's been a year already? My how time flies when you're reading about someone else having fun.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick

I think it is just a simple fact that monogamy leads to a decrease in sex with that person. It has not happened to me yet with my current boyfriend, but we've only been together a year and he's the horniest 26 yo in the universe. But I think it's inevitable. The question is, what do you do to cope? Do you accept it, or do you cheat?

it's chicken or the egg with people letting themselves fall apart and become less attractive too.

when we were say mid-30s (ten year anni) a friend asked us to do the Bob (host) side of a Newlywed game on Valentine's Day. 6 couples, 5 married for at least 5 years, one couple just dating for a year.

We wrote a question before New Years Day "It's Feb 14, 45 days into the new year. Have you and your husband made Whoopie 15 times this year?"*

The 5 married said no, the daters said yes, but what was most telling was no one had to think it through, the answers were all immediate.

*of course my own answer was not telling given that i had advance notice of the question.