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Originally Posted by ltl/fb
It's a delicate thing, if it's not all explicitly FWB. I don't envy you. OTOH, you're getting laid, and nothing that can happen in connection with this is going to be lastingly damaging or anything. At worst, she hates you and trashes you to all her friends. But if she does that, she's crazy, so it doesn't matter. If she's relatively normal, there shouldn't be an inordinate amount of drama.
Though it seems like there is a largish subgroup of people for whom anyone they once had any kind of romantic/sexual relationship is an asshole/bitch after the relationship ends. But if that's the case, you were in a no-win.
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From the sound of it, she isn't that into him (I have never told someone that I'd like to be single for a while unless I have written off any sort of serious connection). Adder, don't keep yourself up at night. You seem not to be a person who is capable of FWB. Cut the cord. If you want to, remind her of that period when she wanted to be single. Heck, if you are not a breaker-upper, just annoy her in the ways that you must have when she made the single comment and maybe she'll initiate the break-up again.
