Congratulations Slave and Catrin!!!

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by notcasesensitive

just annoy her in the ways that you must have when she made the single comment and maybe she'll initiate the break-up again.

from what i can tell about him over the internet, if this isn't happening organically without him trying, she has high tolerance level. no offense adder.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by ltl/fb

Does that mean we are still sleeping together?

of course, my love. whenever it makes sense for both of us.

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally Posted by Adder

Friends with benefits wouldn't be all bad, and maybe is basically what has been going on for the last few months. But my concern is that she will start or has started taking it more seriously, while I am actually moving in the opposite direction. Unfortunately, I really can't tell.

She spent the night on Saturday, which led me to spend a fairly sleepless night pondering how to break up. I suck at dating.

Christ, man. If you're thinking this much about getting laid it's a miracle you're getting laid at all. Get it over with and marry the girl. Who knows when the Sex Faery's going to gift you again?

It's a bad economy. This is no time to be looking gift horses of any kind in the mouth.

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally Posted by notcasesensitive

From the sound of it, she isn't that into him (I have never told someone that I'd like to be single for a while unless I have written off any sort of serious connection). Adder, don't keep yourself up at night. You seem not to be a person who is capable of FWB. Cut the cord. If you want to, remind her of that period when she wanted to be single. Heck, if you are not a breaker-upper, just annoy her in the ways that you must have when she made the single comment and maybe she'll initiate the break-up again.

Do that thing that turns her off in bed. You know... talking.

[Adder]

Originally Posted by notcasesensitive

From the sound of it, she isn't that into him (I have never told someone that I'd like to be single for a while unless I have written off any sort of serious connection). Adder, don't keep yourself up at night. You seem not to be a person who is capable of FWB. Cut the cord. If you want to, remind her of that period when she wanted to be single. Heck, if you are not a breaker-upper, just annoy her in the ways that you must have when she made the single comment and maybe she'll initiate the break-up again.

Underlying all of this, allegedly, is her difficultly getting over a serious relationship with her ex. The "needing to be single" thing was actually several months ago, and was followed by all of a few days of not seeing her before she reached out to me again. My main reaction to it was surprise that I wasn't really upset and it has been awhile since I initiated anything.

But you guys are probably right, and my anxiety is probably misplaced. I just worry that she is taking things more seriously when the conversation turns more emotional/intimate, but that is probably just because those topics make me uncomfortable in general so if I was her I wouldn't bring them up casually. That probably isn't true of her.

To some degree this is also driven by some interest in a friend who recently moved back into town. Oddly enough, she actually asked me why I never dated this friend (which is a long story of its own).

I have really only done FWB once in that past, which didn't end all that well after she started to take it more seriously, which probably colors my reactions here.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by Adder

Underlying all of this, allegedly, is her difficultly getting over a serious relationship with her ex. The "needing to be single" thing was actually several months ago, and was followed by all of a few days of not seeing her before she reached out to me again. My main reaction to it was surprise that I wasn't really upset and it has been awhile since I initiated anything.

But you guys are probably right, and my anxiety is probably misplaced. I just worry that she is taking things more seriously when the conversation turns more emotional/intimate, but that is probably just because those topics make me uncomfortable in general so if I was her I wouldn't bring them up casually. That probably isn't true of her.

To some degree this is also driven by some interest in a friend who recently moved back into town. Oddly enough, she actually asked me why I never dated this friend (which is a long story of its own).

I have really only done FWB once in that past, which didn't end all that well after she started to take it more seriously, which probably colors my reactions here.

I am very happily married. I think i speak for several other socks here who are also when I tell you, my advice was very heartfelt, and the only thing you should listen to.

[ltl/fb]

Originally Posted by Adder

Underlying all of this, allegedly, is her difficultly getting over a serious relationship with her ex. The "needing to be single" thing was actually several months ago, and was followed by all of a few days of not seeing her before she reached out to me again. My main reaction to it was surprise that I wasn't really upset and it has been awhile since I initiated anything.

But you guys are probably right, and my anxiety is probably misplaced. I just worry that she is taking things more seriously when the conversation turns more emotional/intimate, but that is probably just because those topics make me uncomfortable in general so if I was her I wouldn't bring them up casually. That probably isn't true of her.

To some degree this is also driven by some interest in a friend who recently moved back into town. Oddly enough, she actually asked me why I never dated this friend (which is a long story of its own).

I have really only done FWB once in that past, which didn't end all that well after she started to take it more seriously, which probably colors my reactions here.

God almighty, order a stack of porn and stock up on hand lotion. Stay away from all women. Please.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by ltl/fb

God almighty, order a stack of porn and stock up on hand lotion. Stay away from all women. Please.

you don't seem to get it. women only engage in sex as part of a serious relationship with a view towards, well, let's say it, commitment. adder just is not willing to debase a woman who says she just wants casual sex by engaging in casual sex. I, for one, respect him for it.

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally Posted by Adder

Underlying all of this, allegedly, is her difficultly getting over a serious relationship with her ex. The "needing to be single" thing was actually several months ago, and was followed by all of a few days of not seeing her before she reached out to me again. My main reaction to it was surprise that I wasn't really upset and it has been awhile since I initiated anything.

But you guys are probably right, and my anxiety is probably misplaced. I just worry that she is taking things more seriously when the conversation turns more emotional/intimate, but that is probably just because those topics make me uncomfortable in general so if I was her I wouldn't bring them up casually. That probably isn't true of her.

To some degree this is also driven by some interest in a friend who recently moved back into town. Oddly enough, she actually asked me why I never dated this friend (which is a long story of its own).

I have really only done FWB once in that past, which didn't end all that well after she started to take it more seriously, which probably colors my reactions here.

I'd normally never say this, but in your situation, think with your dick.

[ltl/fb]

Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield

Do that thing that turns her off in bed. You know... talking.

I love you. Granted, it's not going to last longer than the time it takes me to catch up on the PB, but like Camelot, this right here is a spot with one brief shining moment. Don't let it be forgot.

[ltl/fb]

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski

you don't seem to get it. women only engage in sex as part of a serious relationship with a view towards, well, let's say it, commitment. adder just is not willing to debase a woman who says she just wants casual sex by engaging in casual sex. I, for one, respect him for it.

I am so glad I don't fuck women.

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski

you don't seem to get it. women only engage in sex as part of a serious relationship with a view towards, well, let's say it, commitment. adder just is not willing to debase a woman who says she just wants casual sex by engaging in casual sex. I, for one, respect him for it.

I think I speak for all women here (I don't have to be one to speak on their behalf*) when I say women don't like (a) guys who overthink shit, or (b) long foreplay.

To all the women who claim to enjoy lengthy foreplay, you are not real women.

*I have spoken on behalf of all Buddhists, Communists and World of Warcraft Fans elsewhere.

[notcasesensitive]

Originally Posted by ltl/fb

I love you. Granted, it's not going to last longer than the time it takes me to catch up on the PB, but like Camelot, this right here is a spot with one brief shining moment. Don't let it be forgot.

...ten.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield

I think I speak for all women here (I don't have to be one to speak on their behalf*) when I say women don't like (a) guys who overthink shit, or (b) long foreplay.

To all the women who claim to enjoy lengthy foreplay, you are not real women.

*I have spoken on behalf of all Buddhists, Communists and World of Warcraft Fans elsewhere.

we're doing a newlywed game and i need question help.

1- suggest questions.

2- help with this one:

Ladies, the last time your husband drove you two to whoppieland, would you say; he got on the expressway and sped too fast, got lost and wouldn't ask for directions or ?

I'm thinking "took the safe way home."

[ltl/fb]

Originally Posted by notcasesensitive

...ten.

Are you trying to make me break out The Simple Joys of Maidenhood?