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Originally Posted by ABBAKiss
I see that many people here think I should have assumed that a man who told me he loved me really didn't, and it is my fault I was treated like shit. Thanks for that.
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I'm not seeing that, and if they are saying that, I suspect it's only because they are being harsh in order to get you to wake up. You're in a very tough situation. One of the reasons I'm not a mother is because I've seen how hard single motherhood is on my sisters and I don't want that. They've had some terrifically hard times, but are both pretty happy now and one of my sisters just got engaged to a truly fantastic guy.
Everyone is "at fault" for what goes on in their lives to the extent we have control over it. But if you trust someone that you probably shouldn't have, given the other signals he was sending, it doesn't mean you're bad or stupid or whatever. It just means you made a mistake, and everyone makes mistakes, and then they deal with them. You'll know better next time. And it doesn't mean that you can't ever trust anyone again. You'll just know better who to trust.
Wish I could give you a big hug, sweetie.
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