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					Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski  adder can't convince a woman to talk to him. he'll never marry. sad, but he is a decent looking guy. I keep telling him something a teacher told me in 11th grade. I'd just said some nonsense to some girl who wandered off. my teacher said, "it's not that you don't know what to say, it's that you don't know what not to say." | 
	
 Best advice I've gotten is similar: "it doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it."