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		|  03-22-2013, 05:30 PM | #1501 |  
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					Originally Posted by Greedy,Greedy,Greedy  You've never known people who had a desire to exert power over those close to them?  Really?  Can't imagine it? |  I don't know how I can be any clearer that IT'S ABOUT POWER AND SEX.
 
Why do people keep replying like I'm saying its about sex not power? 
 
Is it really that hard to carry in your head the idea that a thing can be "about" more than one thing?
 
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		| Perhaps re-read a bit of Austen or Tennessee Williams or almost anyone other than a romance novelist to get an idea of what can happen between men and women that really doesn't have much to do with sex. |  Aye carumba.  Very little about men and women in romantic settings/relationships doesn't have much to do with sex.  Have you turned into Atticus? |  
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					Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield   female on female rape*). 
 
 * I'm sure it happens somewhere.
 |  you have doubt? someone needs to watch Linda Blair's star turn in Born Innocent.
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		|  03-22-2013, 05:38 PM | #1503 |  
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					Originally Posted by Adder  I don't know how I can be any clearer that IT'S ABOUT POWER AND SEX.
 Why do people keep replying like I'm saying its about sex not power?
 |  Uh, I'll go out on a crazy limb here...  Because that's so reasonable and obviously right it can't be argued against?  
 
If there's "winning" in this lunacy, you won about twenty posts ago when you started arguing the above point.  That's proven by the fact you now cite: That everybody on the other side keeps pretending you're saying something else - something with which they could argue.
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					Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski  you have doubt? someone needs to watch Linda Blair's star turn in Born Innocent. |  She'll forever be the Exorcist  chick to me.  I didn't care for her there, and certainly wouldn't be interested in her later women's prison flicks.
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					Originally Posted by sebastian_dangerfield  Thurgreed is right. |  That's what I was saying.
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					Originally Posted by Adder  Aye carumba.  Very little about men and women in romantic settings/relationships doesn't have much to do with sex.  Have you turned into Atticus? |  Romantic settings?  We're talking rape here.  It has little to do with sex, but nothing to do with romance.  
 
Did you get your knowledge of rape from Tom Cruise movies?
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		|  03-22-2013, 05:59 PM | #1507 |  
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					Originally Posted by Greedy,Greedy,Greedy  Romantic settings?  We're talking rape here.  It has little to do with sex, but nothing to do with romance. |  We were talking about "date rape" (which I wholly agree is a terrible term), but which by definition happens in a setting where one party or both views romance as a possibility.
 
But here, I'll revise it to make it clearer: very little about men and women in settings where one or both of them holds out hope that they will fuck doesn't have much to do with sex.
 
I'm really starting to wonder if the issue is that some of you just don't get enough exposure to kink.  Sex and power are often very closely related things. |  
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		|  03-22-2013, 06:10 PM | #1508 |  
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					Originally Posted by Adder  We were talking about "date rape" (which I wholly agree is a terrible term), but which by definition happens in a setting where one party or both views romance as a possibility.
 But here, I'll revise it to make it clearer: very little about men and women in settings where one or both of them holds out hope that they will fuck doesn't have much to do with sex.
 
 I'm really starting to wonder if the issue is that some of you just don't get enough exposure to kink.  Sex and power are often very closely related things.
 |  Watching you on these boards, I guess I should have realized you like to be the submissive.  Suddenly, I need a shower.
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		|  03-22-2013, 06:28 PM | #1509 |  
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					Originally Posted by Greedy,Greedy,Greedy  Watching you on these boards, I guess I should have realized you like to be the submissive.  Suddenly, I need a shower. |  That you think that's an insult speaks volumes. |  
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		|  03-22-2013, 06:31 PM | #1510 |  
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					Originally Posted by Adder  That you think that's an insult speaks volumes. |  Greedy thinks a practical outcome of knowing rape is about power is that you can spot future rapists by looking for the people who have power, or seek it. I guess this is my way of saying watch your ass. |  
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					Originally Posted by Adder  We were talking about "date rape" (which I wholly agree is a terrible term), but which by definition happens in a setting where one party or both views romance as a possibility.
 But here, I'll revise it to make it clearer: very little about men and women in settings where one or both of them holds out hope that they will fuck doesn't have much to do with sex.
 
 I'm really starting to wonder if the issue is that some of you just don't get enough exposure to kink.  Sex and power are often very closely related things.
 |  "kink?" We need a mod-meeting. I'm calling for a ppnyc-like exorcism.
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					Originally Posted by Atticus Grinch  Greedy thinks a practical outcome of knowing rape is about power is that you can spot future rapists by looking for the people who have power, or seek it. I guess this is my way of saying watch your ass. |  2. Albeit they possess the might, Nonetheless we have the will!
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		|  03-23-2013, 02:36 PM | #1513 |  
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					Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall  You post how you want to post.  You always have.  The only thing I've seen change is that you care how your posts come off.  And you're not quite as "vocally" mean and opinionated, which we all miss.
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		|  03-23-2013, 04:16 PM | #1514 |  
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					Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski  given the sloppiness of Adder's posts, I'd bet you wouldn't even get clean shoes. |  I was going to cite this post with an infraction for Hilarity, but apparently, this site does not permit plebes like me to issue infractions to moderators.
 
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		|  03-23-2013, 04:23 PM | #1515 |  
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					Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski  It's called "Sexual Assault" in most states. Of course there is some connection to "sex." I think what people were disagreeing with is the idea that it is driven by a desire to have sex, and Sebby's theory that if we only all loosened up a bit the problem would . As both Thurgreed and fugee* have said, if someone simply wanted sexual release a bit of cash can get you that. And, as I said, Steubenville wasn't about sexual release at all. |  What has happened to this place?!?  Hank is the one to articulate the crux of the issue in a single trenchant sentence?  If it weren't for the spelling error, I would be forced to conclude that aliens had done a cut-and-replace job on him. |  
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