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					Originally Posted by Jack Manfred  Or, alternate plan... suggest a threesome. After a couple of after-work drinks, tell her you've been thinking about spicing things up, and that a threesome might be fun. | 
	
 Wouldn't freak her out.
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		| It confirms that you think the relationship should remain casual. It could dampen any plans she had to discuss your kinda/sorta relationship at work because she might be embarassed to mention that fact (and if she does mention it and a different woman at the office pursues you down the road, well, that's just something else for the dossier, now isn't it?) | 
	
 I don't think it would have any of those effects, and I am not concerned about her saying anything at work.